The topics of ancestors, family trees, and our lineage are not ones that westerners understand very well. We weren’t brought up to think about our place in a living lineage or how the land where our ancestors lived for generations is a part of our ene... Read more
Living in Harmony
I have a secret to share with you: the Buddha’s teachings on sila or “ethical conduct” are actually my favorite teachings. If for some reason I was never able to formally practice meditation again, I might actually be okay, because I would still be ab... Read more
Learning to Let Go
A central aspect of mindfulness practice is learning to let go of expectations of how things should be or musings on how they should have been and rest in the experience of what is in the present moment. Practicing in this way without judging ... Read more
Inner and Outer Change: A Life Balance
Dear Friends,
Our mindfulness practice helps us to recognize how inevitable change is. One thought disappears into the next, the breath arises and passes away, sounds we’re hearing come and go, the sensation we found so unpleasant one moment is g... Read more
Mindful Writing—A Path to Resilience
“I can shake off everything as I write; my sorrows disappear, my courage is reborn.”—Anne Frank
“When you’re writing, you’re trying to find out something which you don’t know.”—James Baldwin
I have been known to say, “The older I get, the more I... Read more
Gift Given to Everyone
The holidays can be demanding and stressful as well as a time for celebration, reflection, and gratitude. One thing I’ve been reflecting on this week is that we often take the gift of existence for granted. This gift, both ordinary and miraculous, is ... Read more
New Year’s Greetings from Unwinding Anxiety Facilitators Robert Lurye and Elliott Law
We made it (almost)! Certainly for some, 2022 can’t leave fast enough and for others, it will be a year to remember fondly.
What was it for you?
The end of the year often comes with gatherings with family, friends, and co-workers. Sometimes these ca... Read more
The Myth of Our Forever Person
Our loved ones will one day leave us. Friends get mad and change priorities. People move away. Even a great, long marriage can end in untimely death. There is no Forever Person, and it’s a painful truth to sit with. But it is also one of the most libe... Read more
Personalizing Your Practice
When I started meditating a long time ago, I thought there was one way to meditate. I was taught to put my attention on my breath and just watch it with my crazy mind, until I learned to accept whatever unexpected visitor, as Rumi said in the Guest Ho... Read more
Recharge Your Practice With a Tried and True Inquiry
Even if you’ve been meditating for many years, you probably encounter old patterns that seem impervious to your mindful awareness. This is especially true during the holidays when you may be immersed in family dynamics that reignite old patterns you t... Read more