If you had to guess, how frequently does the mind go negative? Psychologists say its about 80% of the time. So much of our day our minds are in a place of worry, anxiety, or some kind of judgment of ourselves or others. All of these thoughts are states ... Read more
Learning to Trust Loving-Kindness
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When youre in a difficult moment, have you found that bringing kindness or compassion into it can make it easier to bear? This is why mettā —
loving-kindness — is such an important part of our... Read more
Untangling the Mystery of Not-Self
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The word anatta gets translated in a lot of different ways. You will hear people say that there is no self, or self is an illusion. Sometimes it’s translated as “not self.” This is on its face very counterint... Read more
The Law of Cause and Effect
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There’s a sutta I love where the Buddha emphasizes a simple teaching about the present moment. Its from The Satipatthana Sutta, which is instructional for how to practice being here now. It say... Read more
Healing the Divide
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The Buddha taught that while others may behave in ways that are disappointing, shocking, or cruel; we shall not be cruel -- thus, we shall incline our hearts.
He said that even the inclination... Read more
The Bliss of Blamelessness
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How can we deepen an inner sense of freedom?
In Buddhism, ethics are very important. We have something called the Five Precepts—ethical guidelines for how we can live our life to be a good, safe person in th... Read more
True Generosity: The Gift of Letting Go
The practice of generosity takes us out of the acquisitional paradigm of happiness that most of us get — particularly if you grew up in a Western culture — that your happiness and well-being will ripen when you get that degree, that job, that house, tha... Read more
Kindness is Not Always Comfortable
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It’s beautiful to explore Wise Speech, because it is a life practice we can turn to everyday to deepen our understanding of how our communication can create or relieve suffering in ourselves and in the world.... Read more
Mind the Gap
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A very famous thing we like to do in mindfulness practice is to not scratch your itches, or to not move during meditation. Not because it’s wrong to move—it’s not. The invitation is: Can you no... Read more
Practice as Protection
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I wanted to talk to day about practice as protection. It’s something I noticed when I began Buddhist practice and meditation, which for me was in my early 20s. I met with a group in Oa... Read more