Those of us who started meditation in the 1960’s and early 70’s felt we needed to find an alternative to protesting the Vietnam war, injustice and the corporate consumer culture. We were activists who discovered we also had to change our consciousness... Read more
An Engaged Buddhist Woman’s Extraordinary Life
The full moon is waning now; silvery light splashes into my little room on retreat on Whidbey Island. Like the movement of ocean tides, women’s bodies are attuned to the rhythm of the moon cycle. Years ago in Massachusetts, I created “Women in Buddhis... Read more
The Heart of Meditation
Everyone talks about mindfulness these days. Now that it has gone mainstream it means different things to different people. My spiritual teacher Venerable Dhammananda Bhikkhuni, said mindfulness is when our minds are fully present. Most of the time we... Read more
Healing In Community
“The medicine is already within the pain and suffering. You just have to look deeply and quietly. Then you realize it has been there the whole time.”
–Saying from the Native American oral tradition
One way to think of the pandemic is a ye... Read more
Compassion For This Moment
20 years ago, when the Twin Towers fell, many of us experienced some shared moments of suffering – confusion, shock, fear, anger, and grief (the ripples, reactions, and repercussions unfolding from that tragedy we’re globally still grappling with toda... Read more
Let Metta guide your actions
Metta is a Pali word which is most often translated as lovingkindness. It’s not a perfect translation because that’s not a word that is used in English. Other translations used are benevolence, good-will, loving friendliness, universal love etc. Me... Read more
Self-Compassion’s Core Questions
The quintessential question of Mindful Self Compassion (MSC) is, “What do I need right now?” That is, mindfully checking in with yourself, and if stress or struggle are present, showing up for yourself as you would a friend – maybe offering some so... Read more
Steadiness Amidst the Waves
Tomorrow morning, I’m offering teachings on “Steadiness Amidst The Waves.” How does what I notice or miss in any moment affect the steadiness of my heart?
As I drive, I see a man at the approaching intersection selling flowers, his weatherbea... Read more
Subtleties
A brilliant Tibetan Buddhist meditation teacher was famous for pointing to an image of a bird flying in a clear blue sky and asking, “What do you see?”. The answer would usually be, “A bird”. The teacher would then point to the sky and ask, “W... Read more
Parenting Black Children in a Joyful and Sorrowful World
Diasporic Black parents are parenting in a complex time. We are from the South, from the Caribbean, from the Continent, Harlem, Brooklyn, Baldwin Hills, Crenshaw, and beyond. Our families are varied, multifaceted, rich in culture and wisdom,... Read more